Greetings and Salutations
In reply to Kitsunelord43 (msg # 1):
Irashaimase, O-Kitsune-san!
I'm an old school gamer, me, but I get that everybody starts out somewhere. You should be able to find most anything here you might want to play.
Check out the RPoL Help system, particularly the policies regarding Adult and Mature Content games. Hang out in Community Chat and get to know folks.
When you're ready to play, check out Wanted - Players, or, if you want to find that special game, get on Wanted - GMs and ask if someone will run it for you.
Another great board to follow is Game Proposals, Input and Advice. This is where GMs float game proposals to judge interest before creating a new game.
If you're looking to run a game, definitely look at the GM Help and ask questions. Lots of GMs here will help out and mentor new GMs. I was privileged to be able to lurk in a game before starting one, and I like to think it has had a real positive influence.
Well, it looks like I'm rambling again. Knock around, get to know the place, and have fun, dag-nab-it!